In celebration of Earth Day, April 22, I put together an Herb Garden for my little backyard space in the hopes of using fresh, organic herbs for my cooking (or just rub their little leaves so it will release their lovely fragrance). Very Earth friendly. Very Simple to make. Read the rest of this entry
A few months ago I posted about my washer issue here and used RepairClinic.com to diagnose the problem and then ordered a new lid switch. All I had to do was provide my model number and chose from of a list of issues and viola!, I had a part on the way. (The advantage of RepairClinic.com is that you can return the part for a full refund if it turn out that it’s not what’s broken) Read the rest of this entry
Just taking a few days off from blogging, working and DIY-ing to enjoy a few days just living. Spring is teasing us Texans with some delightfully warm days and then a sudden cold and windy day. Such are the Ides of March. Read the rest of this entry
If you are like me, you didn’t expect to be doing this Single Mom journey at all. You thought you would have a partner in life that would be the Ying to your Yang and would always be there for the hand-off whether juggling household chores or managing the soccer schedules. Read the rest of this entry
In checking on my laundry yesterday, I saw my clothes sitting in the laziest of manners in the tub of the wash machine soaking in dirty water. I had to stop and think, “when did I put these clothes in?” and “are they just in a soak cycle?”. After playing with the dials and knobs for a while in a knowing manner to see if I could initiate a drain and spin sequence, I came to the frightening conclusion that that dang machine was broke. Or just being lazy. Or just broke.
There’s nothing scarier in the world for a single mom than having an appliance stop working. First of all, most appliances in the home are used and used again on a daily basis and their loss cannot just be brushed off like a bad date with an “Oh well!” and a flip and of the hair and the hand. Replacing them is usually a rather large expense, usually of the unexpected variety.
In the past 6 months, I have been faced with a few failing appliances and before taking that machine out back to be kicked, shot and mourned, I decided to see if I could fix it myself. Yes, that’s right. In this day of YouTube and internet, it isn’t all that improbable that an easy fix could be a few key strokes away.
I highly recommend the website, RepairClinic.com Any amazing website that helps troubleshoot issues, has video on how to take apart your machine, test parts if possible and an online chat to ask questions. Once you identify the issue and if you need a part, then you can order it directly from them. Then you can watch a video on how to install the part and if it turns out that it wasn’t the problem after all, you can return for a full refund of your money. It is totally a win-win situation with low risk. After all, you were probably going to trash that disloyal piece of metal anyway and get yourself a shiny new bells-and-whistles something-or-other. So, what have you got to lose to try it yourself and maybe gain a new sense of achievement and empowerment. You know, it’s not like you have to tell anyone …. just say the “dang thing” exploded when the kids come home from school and find the machine dismantled in the kitchen.
Several months ago my dryer was making a horrible screech, which started even more months prior as a cute little mouse-like squeak and then slowly escalated to a mind-scrambling, metal-on-metal, leave-the-house-when-drying-the-clothes noise. I was definitely not in a position to buy a new dryer and frankly, why would I want to? I’m definitely a “gadget girl”, but clothes dryers do not excite me. And having a new one is nothing I would brag about.
I did some basic internet queries and saw comments about the drive belt. I was positive that’s what it was, after all, don’t cars make that awful noise when their belts are going bad or slipping? So I went to the auto parts store and got me some belt lubricant and gave that a go. Moral: Not every chat room is going to give you good advice or a money back offer.
Not one to give up an opportunity to bust through another gender paradigm …… I found RepairClinic.com and once I located and typed in my dryer brand and model number (easy find inside the door), I was able to utilize videos that help me identify the noise and another video that help me to take the dryer apart to confirm the diagnosis. In my case, there were sliders that help the drum spin smoothly that had worn to nothing. I had four that needed to be replaced and the bracket that holds them. For about $35, I was able to repair my dryer and get it back into quiet working order within a few days (parts need to be shipped). All it took was some time, effort, a bit of knowledge and a screw driver to take the dryer apart and put it back together. The parts just snapped into place. Suddenly, I felt like I was standing on a mountain top, hands on hips, with a red cape flapping in the wind. I had done it! Que music from Rocky followed by a very funky Happy Dance. Un-hu, I am bad… I know it!
So, now I am looking into the tub of my machine wondering how long those clothes are going sit in that water before they start to decay, cuz I’m thinking I won’t be bailing out that water if I don’t have to. I started looking through their troubleshooting guide and read the following under Repair Help:
Washer Stop in mid-cycle
Yes, that’s exactly what happened, so I click on that it brings up the parts that could be responsible and, assuming that my timer must be the issue, I look under the Timer part it said:
If the washer stops mid cycle the timer might be defective. This part is often misdiagnosed, check other components before replacing this timer.
So I looked around for another option…..
Lid Switch Assembly
If the washer stops mid cycle the lid switch assembly might be defective. This is a very common problem. The lid switch assembly can fail either mechanically or electrically. Test any electrical switches with an Ohm meter for continuity. The switches should have continuity according to their design.
Ah, this must be it. By the way, I skipped the testing with the Ohm meter (although I do have one of the those as it would have required disassemble and draining of the washer) and went straight to the pinky-in-the-lid-switch-slot test and lo and behold, the washer started working. So, definitely the Lid Switch Assembly is failing and I promptly ordered it for $36 + shipping ($42). And since I can’t stand there with my pinky in the Lid Switch slot all day, I did my Lady McGuyver and came up with a temporary solution.
My part should be here next week and my laundry room will be back in a socially and aesthetically acceptable condition.
I’ll let you know how the installation goes….. in the meantime, check out that website and remember that you have options when large metal mechanical things begin failing around you. If nothing else, you will be able to talk to the repair person with all the symptoms and proper jargon and maybe they will think twice about overcharging the knowledgeable and powerful mom with the red cape!
Keep Calm and Thrive On……..
I always like to start at the beginning. I think I am kinda of OCD in that way. I know I could always just jump in right where I am, but I would rather start a story from the start. Which I can imagine makes me a great party guest who has to spend endless moments setting the stage before getting to the point. Kind of like I am doing now.
With no further ado…… the point is…. I bought a house.
My first house. My first house without anybody else’s name on the title or the paperwork. All mine. Is it weird to admit that it had always been a personal goal to be able to say that I, ME, MYSELF, bought a house?
My original plan when I put my old house on the market was to actually move into my parents house. The market was great for selling a house (inventories were low) and I felt that looking for a new house at the same time as selling a house and the logistics of timing the closings and the move where going to be nightmarish. I didn’t want to be put into a position to buy a house I didn’t truly love just because the opportunity to sell my house had presented itself.
I wasn’t actually planning to move back home, so to speak. (Another personal goal was to never ever move back in with my parents). I have 2 kids and 4 dogs and my parents have a 3 bedroom house. I was thinking since they weren’t actually using the house (they RV pretty much full time), it would be a place to settle for a while and launch a serious house search. And since it was right down the street from my current home, it would mean minimal changes for my kids. Same bus schedule, same friends in the neighborhood, etc.
But it didn’t exactly work out that way and I found a house before I knew I was even looking for one. Funny how that works.
I did have a list of must have’s for my next house.
- It HAD to be one story – no more upstairs and no more split bedroom living
- It needed to have 4 bedrooms – a guest room is imperative since my dad visits often for long periods
- I wanted a neighborhood with a community pool for the kids so I didn’t have to have one
- Front entry drive
- A smaller yard for easier maintenance
- A smaller footprint for utlities, taxes and upkeep
- Same school district/schools for the kids
A friend of mine stumbled across a house that just been put on the market, For Sale By Owner, in the neighborhood I was considering. Since house inventories where low, there weren’t many one-storied houses for sale. I rushed over and did a walk through with the owner and was smitten. I scheduled a second viewing on the spot to show my kids.
Here are the pictures from the second walk through…… which are in random order because I haven’t figured out how to move stuff around here..
So many great features which includes a huge walk-in closet in the Master Bedroom, two community pools, my son’s middle school in walking distance and both kids already had friends in the neighborhood. The house was less than 5 years old and with the exception of the rear-entry garage, this was a total score and I jumped on it. I put in my offer that same night and with a few back and forth texts with the owner, we came to an agreement.
And that is how I came to own a new home.
National Severe Weather Preparedness Week is April 22 to April 28
Tornado Season has officially begun in Texas with the touchdown of more than 15 tornadoes in Dallas in the early part of this month. It was the worst day ever, having the kids at school when the sirens went off and false reports of touchdowns nearby. We survived that awful day, but soon enough, North Texas will transition into Wild Fire Season and Flash Flood Season. Are you prepared for a disaster?
Imagine worst case where you have to leave your home immediately or take cover in a closet or basement. Do you know what information you would need to have on hand after you emerge into the aftermath? Who will you call? Does your insurance over this? Does your child need a tetanus shot?
Whenever there is impending doom, I grab my “Important Information” binder, my Portable Safe and my Portable Hard-Drive …. along with the kids, the car keys, the dogs and their leashes. The first three items contain the workings of my life and if I lost every other material thing, then I have the tools to pick up the pieces for me and my kids.
STEP 1: Important Information Binder
This binder pulls together key information needed to make contact and be answer questions about your family, your insurance, your health. This binder can contain:
- A list of Emergency Contacts which include the closest members of your family and their home and cellphone numbers. It should also contain the numbers for your doctors, dentist, eye doctor, plumber, lawn service, utilities companies and alarm service. (What if you lose your cellphone?!?)
- Current Car Insurance policy
- Current Home Owners insurance policy
- Kids current shot records
- Dogs Rabies Certifications
- Life Insurance Policies
My binder is full of sheet protectors that I can just drop things into it as I think of stuff I may want to have with me.
It isn’t unusual for me to reference that binder in just doing day-to-day stuff and my mom knows where it is in case I become seriously ill or when I occasionally travel. So, I also include:
- Authorization for her to treat my kids
- Health Insurance Cards
- Current Pictures of my kids and pets (in case they go missing)
- Care and Feeding instructions for my Pet Sitter
- The Kids Routines and Schedules for when I have to travel without them.
STEP 2: Personal Safe or Safe Deposit Box
- Birth Certificates
- Vehicle and Home Titles
- SS Cards
- Your Will
- A copy of your identification card/driver license
- A copy of your Credit Cards front and back
- A Password/Combination Log of your email, online, website accounts
- A book of checks/or emergency cash
STEP 3: Portable Hard Drive/Remote Backup
Personally, I like to keep all my digital photos, and I have a zillion of them, on a 1 terabit portable hard drive which I grab when I need to take cover. If I lose every photo album in a fire, flood or storm, then I still have these valuable keepsakes.
I also keep an online remote backup of my PC Hard Drive with a service called Carbonite. For $69 a year, my home computer is constantly backed up and I can retrieve my documents from any internet-connected PC or from an App on my iPhone. This also gives me protection should my hard drive crash from a hacker, a virus or a power surge. Or sometimes, it’s been known to just crash randomly. This gives me incredible peace of mind that my data won’t disappear in a flash.
Check out this link that compares remote backup services.
This is just a small portion of what you will need in the aftermath of an emergency. There are many, many website that can provide further information on how to prepare for an emergency, such as preparing food rations, evacuation plans, and disaster kits. All these are very important to a well-rounded Disaster Preparedness Plan.
Check out these websites for more information:
If your area is prone to hurricanes and/or earthquakes, there are specific websites for preparedness for your situation:
Some of these lists can be incredibly thorough, so review them and take away what you need and can easily manage.
Peace of Mind
A plan and having information at your fingertips can give you peace of mind. Sharing this plan with your kids and extended family can give you all confidence that “in case of emergency”, you will know what to do, where to go, and how to kick start your life again.
Now, get started and here’s hoping you never have to use your plan!
- Book Review: Survival Mom (examiner.com)
- This is not a test: Disaster Preparedness in 6 Steps (cmcacorner.com)